Asian Weddings – Wedding Attire in India, Japan, and China

Deciding what to wear to a wedding can be an ordeal. Add to that mix the need to consider different cultural customs and it can be altogether bewildering. Together with Charles Tyrwhitt, retailers of timeless menswear, we look at the dress code of a wedding changes depending on the background of the newlyweds. So, what’s the proper wedding attire of a wedding with cultural ties to India, Japan, and China? Let’s have a look.

Asian Weddings - Wedding Attire in India, Japan, and China

What will the bride be wearing?

Brides are known in the UK for their flattering white dresses, accompanied by a long train and veil. But how do our own bridal traditions compare to India, Japan and China?

India

With India being such a vast country the bride’s attire depends on what region she is from. In some regions she might opt to wear a saree, which is a garment that looks like a long drape, in others she wears a lehenga which is a long skirt. Often the bride is dressed in red or another vibrant colour, her garments will be carefully embroidered with an impressive design.

The bride and her bridal party often have henna on their palms, hands, forearms and legs.

Japan

Japanese weddings are very elaborate and it is acceptable for families to spend close to £75,000 on a wedding day. To the Japanese the opinions of others are very important and since it is often the parents of the couple who organise the wedding, and they are willing to spend excessive amounts to save face. Because of the large scale of the weddings, the bride can have as many as 5 costume changes!

At a traditional (Shinto) wedding, the bride wears a white kimono, but more recently Japanese brides wear a dress that has a traditional print.

China

In China, it is likely that the bride will be dressed in red as it is considered a sign of good luck that can ward off evil spirits. This is yet another country that is massive in size, which means the bride’s attire varies by region. Typically in northern China, the traditional attire for a bride is a one-piece dress that is embroidered with gold and silver designs. In southern China, the typical wear is a two-piece frock.

A bridal crown is part of the wedding costume for some brides too – it is worn for photography or for show at a grand occasion. For footwear, a special pair of shoes are often worn that are embroidered with a symbol — for example, a turtle or a deer which symbolises happiness and longevity.

Asian Weddings - Wedding Attire in India, Japan, and China

What will the groom be wearing?

The men often have traditional dress codes that they are expected to follow – however, many of them are opting for a smart suit similar to how a groom in the UK would dress.

India

Similar to the women, it depends on what region of India the groom is from as to what they wear. Some husbands-to-be wear traditional dress, such as a dhoti which is a rectangular cloth that ties around the waist. In other regions, they wear a sherwani (a long coat), a kurta ( a loose falling shirt that hangs below the knee), or a Western suit.

The men also have henna on their bodies but it is less elaborate and often hidden.

Japan

Traditionally, a Japanese groom wears a wedding kimono for the ceremony and then changes into a tuxedo. The formal kimono that he wears is called a montsuki, and often displays the family crest. More recently, younger grooms start the ceremony in a tuxedo too, similarly to the west. 

China

In China, the husband-to-be traditionally wears a black silk coat over an embroidered robe. Often, in the modern day, the overcoat is not worn.

The groom has to wear certain headwear too – this is usually a black hat with a red tassel. Just like some younger generations of Japanese, some younger grooms are not following the traditional dress code and simply wear a tuxedo or a Western-style business suit.

Asian Weddings - Wedding Attire in India, Japan, and China

What should the guests wear?

It can be difficult to choose an outfit as a guest, as there are many traditions and symbols that you may be unaware of and you don’t want to offend anyone.

India

At an Indian wedding, the bolder your outfit is the better. Wearing vibrant colours will mean you fit in with the Indian guests. Guests should avoid white or black as these are colours worn for funerals and mourning in India. Steer clear from wearing red, as the bride will probably be donning this colour and you don’t want to upstage the bride. 

Women guests should not bare their shoulders, wear low cut tops or short skirts as this can be seen as disrespectful — a jewel-tone dress with a shawl is one appropriate outfit. The Indian female guests will most likely be dressed in colourful sarees or anarkali suits. Jewellery is important for women too, choose a statement piece for around your neck with matching earrings and bangles.

Men often wear a tailored kurta with a pyjama and a dupatta (shawl) can be added over the kurta. For their feet, sandals, jootis or chappals are often worn as these are comfortable and prevent overheating.

Guests might also be expected to cover their heads if the wedding is held in a temple. For this, women can wear a long scarf or pashmina over their heads and men are usually provided with a head cover such as a large handkerchief.

An Indian wedding is often a long drawn out event (it could be three days long!) so make sure you are wearing something loose and comfortable.

Japan

At a traditional Japanese wedding, men were expected to be dressed very formally in a black suit and white tie. Now, however, the dress code is more flexible and it is acceptable for men to come dressed in suits other than black with various coloured ties. However, it is advised to avoid white clothes with black ties.

Women often wear dresses that are knee length or a coloured kimono to take on a traditional look. It is best to avoid showing any shoulder as this can be deemed disrespectful.

China

As with weddings in India, a Chinese bride will probably be wearing red, so stay away from that colour. It’s best to wear pink, peach or purple as these are all symbols of new life and happiness. A formal dress is suitable for a Chinese wedding.

Colours to avoid include black and white, as these symbolise mourning and black is considered to be the colour of bad luck.

Have you ever been a guest at an Asian wedding? 

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  • This is such a interesting post; love how cultures celebrate the wedding day so differently and how wonderful all the dresses are in their own way – loved this!

  • Rebecca U

    I have never been a guest at an Asian wedding, though my sister lives in Japan so hope to one day 😉 Really interesting post

  • I went to my best friend’s Indian wedding earlier this year and chose to wear a sari and we made sure we went bold with the colours x

  • I’ve never been to an Indian wedding before, but would love to experience another culture’s wedding x

  • I had no idea the bride would be wearing red, that was fascinating and usually a colour to shy away from x

  • Claire Lee

    Interesting, I’m from Korea so I sorta understand. We used to be like wearing these colorful traditional clothing when I was young, but not anymore. We just wear any formal outfits.

  • FussFreeJen

    I love the difference with other cultures. Part of my family is Indian, and going to an Indian wedding was just wonderful. The colours and decoration are just fabulous.